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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Biased Attacks ~ The Pot Calling The Kettle Black?


Our Church and our Holy Father are carrying the Cross with Christ this Easter.

Reading the following around the internet....

The Myth of Pedophile Priests
As more pedophile priest scandals blow up across Europe we should be ashamed of the offenders and those who sheltered them and oppressed the victims. The guilty should be weeded out, removed from office and handed over to the civil authorities where they are guilty of crimes. Systems to avoid abuse must be established and rigorously maintained, and victims should be justly compensated for their suffering.

However, Penn State professor Philip Jenkins (who is not a Catholic) has written the most objective book on the subject, and he summarizes his arguments in this excellent article. In light of his work, we should remember some basic facts and principles:

* Priestly celibacy is not the issue - married men are more likely to abuse children than unmarried

* Most child abuse takes place within the home.

* All religious groups have pedophile scandals, and the Catholics (while the largest religious group) are at the bottom of the list statistically.

* Child abuse is prevalent in all areas of society: schools, youth organizations, sports, etc.

* Statistically, of all the professions, Christian clergy are least likely to offend. Doctors, Farmers and Teachers are the professions most likely to abuse children--not clergy.

* Among clergy offenders Catholic priests are least likely to offend.

* Catholic cases of pedophilia make more headlines because of anti Catholic prejudice and because the Catholic Church is bigger and more lucractive to sue.

* Pedophilia and Euphebophilia are different problems. The former is sexual attraction to pre-pubescent children. The latter is attraction to teenagers. Most cases branded 'pedophila' are actually 'euphebophila.'

* Most of the cases of euphebophilia are homosexual in nature, however the politically correct do not want this problem to be associated with homosexuality.

* The number of Catholic priests guilty of pedophilia is very small.

* What we now call 'cover up' was often done in a different cultural context, when the problem was not fully understood and when all establishment organizations hushed scandals. They did so for what seemed good reasons at the time: protection of the victims and their families, opportunity for rehabilitation of the offender, the avoidance of scandal to others. It is unfair to judge events thirty years ago by today's standards.

* When lawsuits are looming people smell money. We must be wary of false accusations.

* When guilt is established the offender must be punished, not sheltered.

* Distinctions must be made between types of abuse. Some offenses are worse than others. Verbal abuse or corporal punishment during a time when that was acceptable, while lamentable, is not the same as sexual abuse or extreme physical abuse.

* Sexual abuse of an adult, or a sexually experienced older teenager is wrong, and damaging, and should be punished, but it is not the same as the sexual abuse of a younger, innocent child.

I am in no way wishing to be soft of pedophiles and those who covered for them, however justice and truth demand an objective analysis of the facts. ~From Father Longenecker's blog.

And, from the Archbishop of NY, “What deepens the sadness now is the unrelenting insinuations against the Holy Father himself, as certain sources seem frenzied to implicate the man who, perhaps more than anyone else has been the leader in purification, reform, and renewal that the Church so needs...No one has been more vigorous in cleansing the Church of the effects of this sickening sin than the man we now call Pope Benedict XVI. The dramatic progress that the Catholic Church in the United States has made — documented again just last week by the report made by independent forensic auditors — could never have happened without the insistence and support of the very man now being daily crowned with thorns by groundless innuendo. "

"Pope Benedict has taken serious steps to address the abuse scandal in the Church. What steps have a degenerate liberal elite taken to protect children in society at large? These are the same people who favor the abortion of unborn children." http://catholicworldreport.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=165:the-pope-and-his-pharisaical-attackers&catid=37:exclusive&Itemid=54 , <----- An angry article that asks some interesting questions, like.... Is that the pot calling the kettle black??

I pray for ALL victims and for the Pope.

Monday, March 29, 2010

All for Jesus, through Mary

The music is not even necessary.

Our Blessed Mother and Our Lord convey ALL without words.



I'm going on day two of my daughter sleeping over at my parent's home. It is her first time and she is loving it as her little girl cousins are there with her, a house full of girls instead of our boyworld.

IT IS SOOOO HARD FOR ME!

In fact, it physically hurts. For 5 and a half years I have kissed her every night as she sleeps...her sweaty head...and she smiles as I do so in her sleep.

She is always near me. She is always kissing and hugging me and chatting with me and I am going through withdrawal. And I can't stop bursting out in dramatic agony, "My daughter!"

The boys have stopped thinking it's funny.

And it's not funny. Deep inside I know I need more faith. I see these images of Our Blessed Mother and the depth of her suffering for her Child and her faith shames me. God brings us these revelations about ourselves...it's more than just my love for my daughter. I can see that now.

I pray that Our Lady wraps me in her mantle and I learn from her strength and faith. I understand what it means to go to her, like a child. Yes, she is so Motherly and capable in all the areas I am not. Guide me dear Mother. Mother me tenderly and bring me to such love and trust in your Son, my Lord and Saviour.

Holy week begins and already it is emotional....may it be blessed for us all.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Sunday Silence ~ Palm Sunday





Today Father quoted Archbishop Fulton Sheen, that there are only 2 types of people:
...those that hide from God, not wanting to change or give up worshipping the world...
...and those who seek God, never wanting to lose Him.
May I seek and TRUST, I pray!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Sixty Seconds On Tuesday

Jenny so poignantly noted...

"Because the minutes of our day pass so quickly, never to return. Our kitchen will never look exactly same (sometimes this is to be appreciated), our children will never "do" the same thing (again, sometimes appreciated), our soul will be moved differently, a word will be spoken for a specific season...all these moments are fleeting.

And each one is precious.

I've recently been thankful that I have this blog to look back over. There are pictures and words here not recorded anywhere else. These brief moments stored in archives, not forgotten or left to the cramped recesses of my mind. Join me on Tuesdays to preserve the minute. Link back here with a moment preserved in word, thought or photo."


So, I'm joining Jenny's SIXTY SECONDS ON TUESDAYS

These are the moments I want to preserve and remember from the weekend.
A family dinner with my parents. I enjoy setting the table most nights, creating an inviting scene. And I savor the blessing of dining together with my husband and children. A time to reconnect and gather as a family, it solidifies our identity and commitment.

The first Spring-like weather was appreciated on the deck. My daughter was the perfect focus for my camera.
Although, she was not always so serene about it...

This time with her and her Daddy, snuggling and laughing...
Ah, the promise of Spring and more memories like these. Sigh and smile.

Monday, March 22, 2010

If The World Hates You....

Often, when I feel miserable about the state of the world, it helps to remember that God permits it.

And all His plans work out for good.

Today I must remember the ugliness of the Crucifixion, which He allowed and what He brought out of it...Redemption!

I must also remember to pray and pray for those who, undoubtedly, have more worries than my own. Can you imagine how the evil one must seek to rob the Holy Father of his peace?

Send the Holy Father an email, let him know of your support.

Pope Benedict does have a public email address: benedictxvi@vatican.va




A partial indulgence is granted to the Christian faithful who, in a spirit of filial devotion, devoutly recite any duly approved prayer for the Supreme Pontiff (e.g., the Oremus pro Pontifice):

V. Let us pray for our Pontiff, Pope Benedict.

R. May the Lord preserve him, and give him life, and bless him upon earth, and deliver him not to the will of his enemies.

Our Father. Hail Mary.

Let us pray.

O God, Shepherd and Ruler of all Thy faithful people, look mercifully upon Thy servant Benedict, whom Thou hast chosen as shepherd to preside over Thy Church. Grant him, we beseech Thee, that by his word and example, he may edify those over whom he hath charge, so that together with the flock committed to him, may he attain everlasting life. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Pistol Packin' Momma

A friend of ours invited us to a shooting range and let us use his 9mm gun, after instruction.

We all fired off a few rounds and we all hit the target. Exciting!

I must say I was surprised by how comfortable the gun felt in my hand...the stuff movies are made of...

Friday, March 19, 2010

Music to Move the Soul

from the serenity that is Jenny's blog....



A perfect Stations of The Cross accompaniment, thanks friend.

Thursday, March 18, 2010

Joseph: The Man Closest to Christ

God gave us quite a role model in this beloved and "just" saint chosen BY GOD to protect his Son and Our Lady.

From Women for Faith and Family we read...
Pope Pius IX placed the whole Church under the Patronage of Saint Joseph in 1870.
In 1989, Pope John Paul II reflected deeply on the life and witness of Saint Joseph in Redemptoris Custos "Guardian of the Redeemer" (q.v).

Among the saints known to have had particular devotions to Saint Joseph are Saint Bernard, Saint Thomas Aquinas, Saint Gertrude, Saint Bridget of Sweden, Saint Alphonsus and Saint Teresa of Avila.
In 2005, Pope Benedict XVI said that in a world which is "too noisy, and does not encourage reflection and listening to the voice of God", Christians should "allow themselves to be 'infected' by the silence of St Joseph".

A model of humility, St. Joseph dedicated his whole life to the interests of Jesus - an example of faith and trust, he was obedient to God's call. I continue to pray that the men in my family reflect St. Joseph's character to...


- Protect the unborn
- Be unselfish husbands/ Authentic fatherhood
- Serve God and His Church/ hard-working providers
- Devote themselves to The Blessed Virgin and the chastity of their vocation


No great words or deeds necessary as the Bible in Matthew 1 :18 notes... Just an example of holiness in being lovingly faithful, placing the Lord and Blessed Mother first. How could we not want our husbands and sons, our priests, to not be JUST like St. Joseph?!
I hold St. Joseph dear to me and my family and have felt an affinity to him from very early on in my reversion to the faith. As a mother of 3 sons, I like to have our family watch this inspiring DVD on St. Joseph every March. (You can rent it at Netflix.)

St. Joseph....for the Church, for Priestly fathers, for fathers, for our sons....Ora Pro Nobis.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

My Ancestry


I'm half Irish. And that be me Irish Da.

Below is a blessing prayer I recieved as a baby from a poet Uncle. His type written note is framed and hanging in my room and still draws a tear when I read it.

"One day you will proudly review
The gifts that God planned for you -
United blood ties of Holy Mother Church
To course your veins while on this earth.

Spain's contributions shall n'er be erased
Her historical presence never replaced.
Rome's - Christ's earthly choice to rule and preside
Where remains of Saint Peter shall ever reside.
Dear Erin's - assigned the spread of the faith -
Your ancestry, my dear, is both noble and great.
"

And this Irish music, this song a favorite of mine, is playing today.




An Irish blessing to you on this feast day...

May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields and,
Until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Fr. Nels Gjengdahl

If my boys are called by God to the priesthood, and we would be so honored if they were, I imagine they'd be much like this hockey-lovin', video gaming Priest.




Do you skate, Father? Because there are some boys here who'd like some ice time with you!

We're praying for our priests. God bless them!

What a day to honor St. Patrick should look like...


I have to wonder what would St. Patrick's Day be like if we truly celebrated him?

It would be Christ focused.

It would be about bravery and evangelizing others to the Catholic faith.

It would be about loving service to our enemies to catechize them to our Church.

Perhaps it could also be about honoring Priests and all they do to bring us Christ?!



St. Patrick, Ora Pro Nobis....

"The Lord opened the understanding of my unbelieving heart, so that I should recall my sins." ~ Saint Patrick


As a slave captured and taken to Ireland, Saint Patrick's return to preach there shows his love for the Irish. It was an act of obedience to Jesus' command to love enemies and to pray for persecutors.

Prayer for Enemies
Lord Jesus Christ, Who didst command us to love our enemies, and those who defame and injure us, and to pray for them and forgive them; Who Thyself didst pray for Thine enemies, who crucified thee: grant us, we pray, the spirit of Christian reconciliation and meekness, that we may heartily forgive every injury and be reconciled with our enemies. Grant us to overcome the malevolence and offences of people with Christian meekness and true love of our neighbor. We further beseech Thee, O Lord, to grant to our enemies true peace and forgiveness of sins; and do not allow them to leave this life without true faith and sincere conversion. And help us repay evil with goodness, and to remain safe from the temptations of the devil and from all the perils which threaten us, in the form of visible and invisible enemies. Amen.



Sunday, March 14, 2010

CHC, OLVS, MODG and SETON ~ Catholic Homeschooling Curriculum Choices, Part Two

Part Two on how our homeschool curriculum has evolved and for part one, click HERE.

Up to this point, we'd been homeschooling for 2 years and benefited from 2 different curriculum providers. We were approaching highschool for my oldest and had been intrigued with MODG, used by most of those in our homeschool group. The features of having a consultant to guide your family and the option of also signing up for a TA to grade papers and help me keep my student on track as well as the option of Teleconference classes all combined to frame a program that I did not see available elsewhere. I knew I'd need help guiding my eldest in certain courses in highschool and I knew I still wanted time to devote to my other 3 children/students...so the ability to have more "teachers" was appealing.


YEAR THREE -MODG, Mother of Divine Grace Classical Curriculum
For Year 3, we enrolled the gang in MODG when my oldest was in 8th grade and I also had a 6th grader and 2nd grader....and a preschooler.

My oldest had an incredible TA for History and Religion. On a monthly basis she would call him and discuss his work, what he was reading and learning, what work was due and tips for it. But she went even further, her calls were like mini-lectures, filled with fascinating recaps of the history and movie suggestions and more! Her paper comments were encouraging and the whole process from listening, taking notes, conversing, emailing, scheduling and editing all benefitted my son.

He followed the 8th grade syllabus and planner and, again, it worked out well. One of my favorite resources from that year was Easy Grammar. It was a wonderful way to reinforce Voyages in English and yet so concise and helpful on a more simplistic level. It cut to the chase and taught a way to look at a sentence, dissect it, that has helped me as well! Other favorites are Wordly Wise, the history literature and focus on "living books" and the 5 minute-ers. What are the 5 minute-ers? They are subjects that don't require a lot of time but reap such lovely results...the Poetry recitation and art and music appreciation. We like the Seton Art appreciation books.

For my 6th grader, it also went well. I wondered if he'd like all the reading and he did, because it was interesting. There were some areas where we did make substitutions. My 6th grader grew restless with the TOPS science and so we used Seton's 7th grade science , can't go wrong with Seton...and the Usborne book on Scientists that his older brother had used. We used a CHC Speller, too because we had no prior experience or investment in The Writing Road to Reading. Having used CHC before, the speller was a nostalgic return to a Catholic spelling book that we had previously enjoyed. Have you seen their spellers? They actually have apologetics built into them!

MODG's religion program has students reading and discussing the Gospels with their parent /teacher....wonderful time spent with my son and God the Son. What other program assists you in earning indulgences for reading God's Word as part of your curriculum? An argument can be made that the Bible is the ultimate school book! The recommendation to use the Navarre Bibles that are FILLED with notes has also been a blessing to us. The Catholic notes give us chills sometimes, especially the stunning revelations for St. Jose Maria Escriva who we have grown to love.

The Editing books are a ton of fun and so quick and yet the focus of having the student find mistakes in someone else's paper gives them the power. Great psychology and another 5 minute-er.
It was the first year we used Saxon for math. I think the spiral is a great way to remember and revisit what is learned and the way Saxon has a chapter/lesson referral number beside every problem makes it easy to go back and reread/relearn whatever problem you miss. The teacher's answer keys show the steps too. What a complete and gold standard for math. Now they even have matched their competition in providing teaching DVD tutorials. For this son, who has an easier time with math, I will stay with Saxon as my consultant said every young person that she sees tested that has used Saxon tests higher that those who use other programs. (Demo on tutorials)

For my 2nd grader, MODG was less work than he was used to. It was nice to encourage him to go build with K'nexs or use his imagination in another way. But he liked working at the table with the rest of us. Sound Beginnings was too elementary for him and so we used Seton's 2nd grade speller and Phonics.
Although he liked MODG science he wanted to do more and I had CHC's 2nd grade science to read with him and do note taking on. I really enjoyed reading these with him and seeing Catholicism woven in. (I'm luving that CHC now has videos to peruse their products!) Another terrific find that we used in tandem with our States and Capitals flashcards was Audio Memory's States and Capitals. We found it at the library but had to buy it. My 4 year old new her Capitals just watching alongside her brother!
We like to supplement with lots of library DVDs and educational Netflix. See this POST for more. In our Netflix queue, besides movies and biographies, we have science series, geography series, even math series along with manners, virtues and young reading/phonics DVDs. The youngest get something daily, the older boys usually on Fridays.

At the end of that school year, last year, I sent away to OLVS' link for testing. Scroll down this page for standardized testing. Mrs. Dunsford was VERY affordable, prompt and professional and the kids tested very well! Phew! It was a wonderful year and with all the flexibility we needed and a 32 week school year that allowed us plenty of time for field trips and time to divert from the planner should we want to follow a rabbit trail. Mother Of Divine Grace (combined with our additions from Seton and CHC) was a great fit for us.

As we approached this year, our table grew larger. We had a local carpenter build one to size. We ordered many new bookshelves, corner cabinets and tables from THIS affordable company to line the walls. We had more books than buckets could hold. It's not really a dining room at all anymore, except for Christmas. Although I did come up with a clever way to hang fabric from inside the open book shelves so that when it is a dining room the books aren't busying up our visual and causing distraction. I'll have to post about that sometime, with pictures.

And here we are, in YEAR FOUR - MODG, Mother of Divine Grace
My 9th grader is following all the MODG suggestions except that he works better, confidence-wise, with Teaching Textbooks for Algebra 1. There is a TON of writing, but he is a good writer (and thank God for his TA!) and I believe that the program has also built his confidence in that area. The literature continues to offer excellent suggestions to bring time periods alive and the Religion is meaty. His TA truly helps him (and me) stay on track with so much writing for Science (2 papers a week) and well as papers in Religion and History. While the Warriner's Grammar was recommended, Easy Grammar was too and I wonder if I should have stayed with that? It's not that we don't like Warriners, I'd just like to open the Easy Grammar up and see how it compares and engages the student. We also deviated to Wordly Wise again, for vocabulary, instead of using Warriner's for that area.

My 7th grader is loving this years Classical focus on Greece and Rome. He luvs reading about Rome and has enjoyed the Greeks as well. His writing has surprised me, he ramped up from dictating to me to typing out lengthy and interesting papers on his own! He enjoys the work of filling in maps for geography. We found an excellent book that covers both art and handwriting while being in this years time period...Draw and Write Through History - Greece and Rome .

Favorites for me from this year are the combined grammar and Latin in Basic Language Principles. Aha! Light bulbs going off. Understanding Latin IS all about understanding grammar. I also love working with him on Catholic Apologetics through the Friendly Defeder cards. Currently he says his favorite is Science and the recent focus on Physics. I hear from moms on the MODG yahoogroup that 7th grade C&C science would have been easier to understand if we had done 5th grade C&C science...I'll remember that for #3 son.


Speaking of #3 son, for my 3rd grader, he's got a bit of a mix going on. Being ahead as a reader he's not doing MODG spelling and phonics but rather using a CHC Speller and SETON phonics. We are liking the MODG Primary Language Lessons. Another favorite is the English From the Roots Up flashcards for learning his Greek and Latin derivatives. Floors the grandparents! His art and handwriting books come from Seton, his math Teaching Textbooks Math 4, but Saxon next year. For Science, we are using the Catholic CHC's Behold and See 3 again. All this deviation and yet we can still be enrolled with MODG. That's flexibility.

This year we have a Kindergartner! And another case of someone who likes to sometimes work around the table longer than she is required to by the MODG program so she has a lot of SETON in her day. She adores her Seton Math book, Mathematics K for Young Catholics and her Phonics K for Young Catholics.

For reading, we are using Teach Your Child to read in 100 Easy Lessons and the CHC's Little Stories for Little Folks. We're also fans of the BOB books for beginning readers.

She memorizes prayers and and recites poems. We read and narrate bible stories and The Catholic Children's Treasure Box as well as other picture books, like ones recommended by The Catholic Mosaic. She loves to draw following the Usborne how-to books and we like the drawing and writing component of Draw Write Now. Besides Fisher Price handwriting books she also uses one called Most Holy Trinity Academy Kindergarten Catholic Penmanship that I purchased from one of my favorite vendors at the IHM conference, Keller Books. Every year I find treasures with them.


ART

Art, in general, comes in many forms. The children all have how-to draw books, like Drawing Textbook recommended by MODG and others, like Usborne, history ones, military ones and Catholic ones. CHC has a Catholic how-to-draw and a great art study program. Steven Kellmeyer has a *wonderful* book called Artfully Teaching The Faith that gives incredible insights. See this post (towards the bottom) for more about that book and others we use for art. From my grandparents I have 2 huge volumes of Funk & Wagnalls Famous Paintings with intro by G. K. Chesterton. A large reproduction of a famous portrait is coupled by an art appreciation lesson for it. I direct the kids to pick one to spend time with every once in a while. You can see it online HERE.


MUSIC

My husband is very musical and plays guitar and piano. My oldest son is like him, also playing both. We follow MODG's encouragement and Andrew Pudewa's to surround ourselves with the beautiful and spend time listening to and comparing Classical music compositions from The Top 100 Masterpieces of Classical Music. Next year there will be Piano lessons.


MEDIA

We use YouTube, alot. It is a great homeschool resource. We listen to Classical music and watch different orchestrations of it. We watch shakespeare and poetry recitations to help us with our inflections. When we read about Mussolini we can look at him and hear him make a speech and history comes alive. We can watch science and history and biography clips there too. To get more in depth, we rent educational films from Netflix.com. On our Ipods and MP3s we can upload poetry and books.

P.E.
Ice Hockey
basement gym workouts
running around outside, biking, ripsticking
and as Spring comes, baseball and golf

Frankly, I'm exhausted. And if you've read this all you , no doubt, are too! Let's leave it here and let me know if I missed anything you wondered about?

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Upholding Purity in Catholic Classrooms


Dear friends with children in Catholic schools, please visit this blog.

Josie has amassed an arsenal of advice for dealing with the scandal of sex-ed in your children's classroom.

From Creative Minority Report blog, Won't You Be My Neighbor?

Friday, March 12, 2010

CHC, OLVS, MODG, SETON and our Catholic Homeschooling Curriculum, part one

There's a bevy of them out there!

Aren't we blessed to have so many wonderful, Catholic curriculum providers for home educating?!

When I began homeschooling 4 years ago I was amazed and a bit overwhelmed by all the choices. Each provider offers curriculum that is well laid out and easy to follow and provides my family with a permeation of Catholicism that they were not getting in our parish school. When I opened my first box of curriculum and flipped through the pages I actually teared up thinking...this was how it was supposed to be! How sad that our Catholic schools use so many secular books when books like these exist....

Many times I have been asked what program my family uses. This post is aimed at answering those requests. This is our journey and how it's worked out for us...
Please note, though, that the beauty of homeschooling is that you can stop and say this curriculum isn't right for us...or for this particular child...and then you can try out another. What's right for us might not be right for you....this is just what we like.

Interestingly, and in concert with the above thoughts, we have tried a number of curriculums. WE HAVE LUVED EACH ONE. However, circumstances have steered us to a "fit" that suits us.

PRIOR TO YEAR ONE
I read every book I could on homeschooling before I started. All the Catholic ones I bought, and many secular ones I borrowed from the library. I remember that beside the reading chair I had a tower of books and I would pour over them night after night. I read a lot online too. Googling "Catholic Homeschooling" led me to many articles, sites and sources that all combined to help me garner courage and frame my understanding.

Favorite books? Look to my side bar, the right column, almost 3/4 of the page down and you'll see them.

YEAR ONE - CHC - Catholic Heritage Curriculum
My children were pretty young. My oldest son was in 6th grade, then my next son was in 4th, the 3rd son would be starting Kindergarten and our baby girl was just 1 year old! Buoyed with confidence from all the reading I had done and loving their "gentle" approach and heavy Catholicism, I chose CHC. I also liked that I would have great planners to follow for scheduling our day but didn't have to "report" to anyone and we could feel our way through this first year of home educating.

We sat around a round table in our dining room and each boy had a large plastic bucket that nearly resembled a picnic basket with handles and they could carry their books to their chair or where ever they were studying and after school it all slide into a cabinet, tucked away. They liked that! So did I.

We followed our wonderful CHC planners and after lunch, when the baby was down for a nap we did most of our more quiet work, like reading. We had the time to, in the last hour of the school day, read aloud to the boys for an hour. We cycled through many books quickly, discussing them. It was a wonderful, bonding time. We took nature walks too, drawing what we noticed. CHC's approach gave us the time to do all those wonderful things. (With the older boys taking on higher level work, I haven't found as much time for that sweetness with my littles. Smell the roses while you can. )

Throughout the liturgical year we read the suggested books from Catholic Mosaic, using their discussion guide to foster narration skills and class participation. We also loved A Year With God, from CHC. That's a book we'll use every year for as long as we homeschool. It is chock full of ideas.

For my Kindergarten son he learned to read with the CHC Little Stories for Little Folks Catholic Phonics readers and I still use them for my daughter, now in Kindergarten. I also appreciated the teacher's guide and MCP math book recommended. But the Phonics readers are what I would call my favorite from that year for that grade.

For my 4th grade son we luved the Rare Catholic Stories, My Catholic Speller and Language of God and Faith & Life series.
Inside the 4th grade planner was a wonderful science program on the human body, Temple of the Holy Spirit. It seems to be it's own book now. It was FUN!!! I will use that again next year as my 3rd son moves into 4th grade. For Math, we used Math-U-See and "Steve," the DVD teacher, became a part of our homeschool and day. The 4th grade history program was on our State and we quickly grew bored of that. We added the history reading from What Your 4th Grader Needs to Know by E. D. Hirsch.

My 6th grade son benefited from the 6th grade selections as well. We especially like the All Ye Lands history text and teacher's manual. The Teacher's manual prepared me for discussions and gave GREAT movie recommendations and links to go along with the reading. Superior!

The Stories of the Saints Reading Comprehension was also an excellent resource. Those two were certainly my favorites from 6th grade. We did not, unfortunately take to the unique Science program they offer in 6th grade and instead followed the free Mater Amabilis curriculum suggestions, which were great and I still use them with my younger children. Secrets of the Universe and notetaking on The Usborne Book of Scientists (From Archimedes to Einstein) proved to be great foundational books for subjects they'd revisit in greater depth in later grades.

With my oldest son heading towards those highschool years, having completed 6th grade and entering into middle school years, it got me thinking. Maybe I did want a curriculum provider that could provide us with a transcript for colleges? Maybe I did want to have a program with accreditation? Maybe it would be easier if we were all in that program and ramped up to it in 7th grade so that by 9th grade he (and I) would be comfortable with the turning work in requirements? If we didn't then we still had 8th grade to try something else out...before it "counted" college transcript wise. While these may not seem like CONS, they did cause us to seek something more traditional, with a safety net. So we looked outside of our beloved CHC which did not offer these things. (We do still use their spellers.)


YEAR TWO - OLVS, Our Lady of Victory
As we are a family in love with the Traditional Latin Mass, Our Lady of Victory appealed to us when we read, "...based completely on traditional Catholic teaching. The Papal Blessing of John Paul II hangs on the wall here in our offices as a "pledge of heavenly favors....From the beginning, OLVS stressed Religion as the common thread throughout the curriculum, with an accent on the history of the Church. " Read more HERE.

The program suited my need for organization. It is very well laid out and withstands the test of time. They are the oldest program, from 1977. (Seton homeschool began in 1980)

PROS - Loads of parental instruction and direction, helpful and detailed planners and answer keys to *everything* made me feel on top of my game. This traditional program was a bit more like Catholic school....memorize, take a weekly test. My children liked that rhythm and end of week goal and we quickly knew what was being retained by their test results. There were also quarterly checkpoints and exams and finals, so study was required and concepts were revisited. This was a no-nonsense program and soooo Catholic.

Some of our favorite resources from OLVS -

The Holy Sacrifice of The Mass, what a wonderful way to learn every facet of the Mass. Has certainly helped prepare our sons for serving at the altar, not to mention understanding the history of their faith.

The 5th and 7th grade literature selections were all wonderful, memorable reads. The Blood Red Crescent, The Blue Gonfalon, The Good Master, Stories of Don Bosco, Flame of White, The Gauntlet...these books were perfect for my sons.

There is no argument that Voyages in English is a gold-standard for grammar, as Our Pioneers and Patriots is for history. And at OLVS, a truly Catholic science textbook...Science and Living in God's World was surprisingly embraced by my sons. Surprisingly because our children are being barraged with glossy paper educational items, cut up like cartoons with colorful images to entertain them...that's what they are conditioned to need visually. And yet most upper level textbooks are dry, filled with words and serious presentations. So yes, I was surprised and relieved and thankful that my boys did just fine with the "less slick" and traditional presentation of these science books and were able to find information in it without some pop up bubble encapsulating it for them!

Every time I called into OLVS with a question, they were prompt, professional and helpful. They offer great flexibility, too. I still used Math -U-See for some of the children and Teaching Textbooks for another and although I was not technically enrolled, I received all the planners and test booklets and answers keys and organizational helpers from OLVS.

Alas, there were some CONS... OLVS is a long school year. As it is a traditional program it schedules 5 full school days. Whereas other homeschool programs keep the 5th day light for catch-up, field trips, sports, co-op classes or music lessons/appointments, OLVS filled the Friday planner up. When necessary, we were able to double up on assignments to finish the week before Friday so as to get a Friday off for joining our homeschool group at First Friday devotions. But, it added obstacles to our flexibility. CHC had been a 36 week school year, but OLVS was 38 weeks. I wonder if that precludes OLVS from a group of potential users who more accustomed to the 32-36 weeks of other programs?

So many in our homeschool group were using MODG. I had read and liked Laura Berquist's books and had heard her at the IHM conferences. Highschool was right around the corner now, as my oldest was then entering 8th grade. Investigating MODG further and hearing other's talk about their helpful consultant and the TA grading the papers and the tele-conference classes where homeschool students enjoy the company of others like them, I felt more drawn to these services. There were going to be subjects I'd need help with. There were 3 other students who needed me too. Help sounded too good to pass up.

Look for PART TWO tomorrow....

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Girl Scouts - Planned Parenthood - Don't Buy the Cookies

The Catholic Family & Human Rights Institute reports
March 11, 2010

Girl Scouts Distribute Planned Parenthood Sex Guide at UN Meeting
By Terrence McKeegan, J.D.


(NEW YORK – C-FAM) The World Association of Girl Scouts and Girl Guides hosted a no-adults-welcome panel at the United Nations this week where Planned Parenthood was allowed to distribute a brochure entitled “Healthy, Happy and Hot.” The event was part of the annual United Nations Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) which concludes this week.




There is more at the link above but it is quite offensive, be warned gentle reader. So sad to see our Catholic school girls in these troops. Guess I'll print this out and seal it in an envelope for scout mothers as to why I won't buy the cookies.

They're not peddling cookies...they're peddling Mortal Sin!

Thankful for the Little Flower Girls Club alternative. LINK

see comments for updates

Monday, March 8, 2010

The Princess and the Pack Mule or Why I Homeschool


The Princess and the Pack Mule
by Denise Mira, The Old Schoolhouse Magazine

After twenty-nine years of marriage and twenty-five years of raising kids, I've put in a lot of miles in my adventure as a wife and homeschooling mom. And although I spend a good deal of time these days traveling and speaking to home educators, you can put away the pedestal, because I live where you live. Behind my dusty window blinds I'm washing dirty dishes while debating brilliant teens, still working out difficult issues with my husband of nearly thirty years, and watching the laundry breed, just like you.

In the middle of the muddle, we moms can have trouble seeing the forest for the trees. We can begin to think we're "just" preparing one more meal, changing one more diaper, breaking up squabbling siblings (again!), nursing whoever is sick this time around and correcting—double ugh—algebra papers at 1 a.m. But I'm here to remind you of who you really are and what you're really doing as the dailies try to blur your vision.

You are not only teaching history; you are writing history on the hearts of your impressionable youngsters, and you are making an impact on multiple generations. "But it doesn't feel so glorious," you might say. I agree. It often feels mundane, tedious, exhausting, and utterly demanding. Some days, I must confess, the big yellow school bus that lumbered down my street looked awfully inviting.

Six students have been home educated at our house. I've been busy training five sons, and God's been busy training me. Married life and child rearing have proven to be God's Extreme Makeover for my character. That point brings to mind an email I received from a woman in Canada:

Dear Denise,
I have been thinking about homeschooling for about a year now (it's my second choice as the Christian private schools are just unaffordable for a one-income family), and I was wondering if you could give me the hard facts about successful homeschooling. No flower, please. My husband doesn't think I can do it because of my temperament. Can you give me some insight?
Thanks, Pam


Here was my response to her:

Dear Pam,
Your hubby's got a good point. The hard facts about homeschooling boil down to three little words spoken by Paul the Apostle in 1 Corinthians 15:31: "I die daily." That's why a commitment to homeschooling based on the weak foundation of it being your "second choice" most likely won't take you all the way to the finish line. Home education is not expensive, but it will cost you pretty much everything.
Blessings, Denise


You see, as a twenty-first-century Kingdom woman, my "life is hid [somewhere!] with Christ in God," (Colossians 3:3), and as long as it remains there, I'm a success. I've only ever "found" my life as I've laid it down. (See Matthew 16:25.) Jesus said, "He that is greatest among you shall be your servant" (Matthew 23:11), and seeing that we've been called to untiring service (yawn), we have numerous opportunities 24/7 to display our greatness.

Let's face it, moms: we're a lot like pack mules. "Mama, can you put this in your purse?" "Honey, can you hold my keys and BlackBerry while I toss the ball to Junior?" "Mommy can you carry the baby? I wanna go swing now." U-huh, pack mules for God.

I've never lived on Easy Street, and that's probably worked a lot of muscle into me, which I've needed to sustain the battle. I said "battle." Our very lives as home educators are a declaration of war. First, we're fighting against our own selfishness and materialism as people choosing to live within our means so Mom can stay home where she belongs and train the children. (See Titus 2:4-5.) Then, we're facing off with our nation's worldly system of public education fed by 500 billion tax dollars a year,1 generational segregation in our families, peer pressure, societal compliance, the enemy called "average," and even the powers of darkness. (See Ephesians 6:12.)
I believe our sons and daughters are potential weapons of mass destruction against the diabolical strategies of hell, just like Moses, Nehemiah, Daniel and Peter were. That's why our grassroots movement is constantly under enemy fire. Haven't you noticed the target that seems to be painted on your back, your marriage, and your offspring? It's not your imagination or that rascal of a man you married. You are engaged in critical warfare.

Homeschooling is a no-brainer. It works. Home-educated kids aren't only testing higher on average than children who are conventionally schooled,2 but they are a fundamentally different specimen altogether. Their substance is rich, due in large part to living life daily with the true experts they need—us, the parents. Homeschooled kids also have a built-in learning lab called "loving and serving our siblings," a daily exercise that builds character and fosters deep camaraderie with their brothers and sisters whom they likely wouldn't even know or would at best endure, after being divided into age-segregated institutional settings rife with hostility and peer dependency for eight hours every day.

Even the media is acknowledging our exploits and censuring the public educational system. In fall of last year, Fox News declared, "Homeschooling Surges in U.S. as Parents Reach for Legal Rights."3 Recently WorldNetDaily's popular Internet site shouted, "Homeschooling Goes Boom in America: 74% increase in number of families teaching own children,"4 while in another camp, CNN.com's Jack Cafferty heralded, "Our [public] schools get lousy grades." Cafferty charged, " . . . The [state educational] system has morphed into this giant government bureaucracy that sucks up billions and billions of dollars for everything except teaching children reading, writing, and arithmetic (and sciences). We pay school administrators hundreds of thousands of dollars to preside over these failed enterprises that produce their share of functional illiterates."5

"The foolishness of God is wiser than men" (I Corinthians 1:25), and God continues to display the utter nonsense of the experts of our day who persist in pushing parents further and further to the margins of their children's lives. Those experts are doomed to fail, because parent-teachers are God's idea: "And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." (Deuteronomy 6:6-7)

So why must we pray about whether or not to send our kids away to be trained by institutions for the best forty hours of every week? Most parents won't share their car keys or pin numbers with anyone, yet they'll give strangers complete, unsupervised access to their most valuable treasures—their offspring—without a second thought.

I'm passionate about this stuff, but I didn't always see things so clearly. Rewind about thirty years and there I was: a naïve but determined radical feminist by the age of 16. Yep, I was the fruit of Gloria Steinem and her cronies by my sophomore year in public high school. I didn't look at little ones playing in the park and think, "How cute." I thought, "What snotty-nosed, inconvenient pains in the neck." I was planning a future without a husband, children, and all their entanglements. But just before I could entrench myself in the adult decisions propelling me to such a destiny, God boldly interrupted my plans.

I became a bona fide "born-again." Everything about my life changed so rapidly that my parents' heads spun. They wondered on a daily basis, "Who is she, and what has she done with our daughter?" I became engaged and married to Gregory, a minister (the plot thickens!), within about a year—just six months after graduation at the tender age of 18.

I didn't immediately warm to the idea of children, but after befriending several pregnant ladies at church, my heart softened, and four years later I was thrilled to be expecting our first child, a boy. Twenty months passed and along came boy number two. Twenty months more and we welcomed boy number three. Then, boy four and boy five. Boy, oh, boy, when God changed my heart, He really did the job!

At the time, homeschooling wasn't anywhere near my radar screen. I equated the concept with hippies, gypsies, and other weirdo subcultures. But then I got a revelation.

I'm convinced that most parents in our nation don't need more love for their kids; they need a revelation. Americans and evangelicals in particular love their children. Just open the door to any kid's bedroom in the United States of America and the love comes pouring out of every nook and cranny: pricey clothes and shoes, beauty supplies, trinkets of every kind, iPhones, iPods, laptops and software, any number of gaming systems costing as much as my first car, musical instruments, and fast food on demand. These and more spell l-o-v-e to vast numbers of well-intentioned parents.

But "love" is not enough. Dads and moms need a revelation.

Revelation is defined as follows: "1. a revealing 2. something disclosed; disclosure; esp., a striking disclosure, as of something not previously known or realized 3. communication, by a divinity or by divine agency, of divine truth or knowledge; specif., God's disclosure or manifestation to humanity of himself or of his will."6 A revelation opens our eyes to see something we haven't really seen before, motivating us to do something we've never done before! When Moses's mother "saw him that he was a goodly child, she hid him three months" (Exodus 2:2). When God allowed me to see beyond the natural to the supernatural potential that He had deposited in our sons, I took action. A revelation in my heart brought a revolution to my home. A revolution is a far-reaching change in ways of thinking and believing, and God knew I needed to be changed (Romans 8:29). But if you know anything about history, a revolution never comes without a battle.
Yes, that day God recruited me to start a war. And I was His first target. Ouch.

Isaiah 53:6 states the problem precisely: "All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way." It's not about one type of sin or another—it's about our wicked human hearts. We want our way, and God is committed to taking the "me" off the throne. After all, He can't do much with a princess; a pack mule is much more useful.

I always used to scratch my head quizzically when I read 1 Timothy 2:14-15, "The woman . . . . she shall be saved through childbearing . . . ," until a few years ago when I realized the work God has worked in me through mothering. It occurred to me that most of what is valuable in me came as a direct result of yielding to the process of living life with my boys.

Home education isn't nearly as much about curriculum as it is about living a lifestyle—a lifestyle of families dying to their self-centered agendas in order to swim upstream, against the current of our secular, hedonistic society. In essence, these busy boys saved me from the tyranny of self! And what a wicked monster she is.

Now, after twenty-plus years of home educating our sons, at particular moments I'm still astonished to think, "This is my life." And I must say, it is my best life now—even on the hard days, and there have been lots and lots of those. You can't be changing the world—and that's precisely what we homeschoolers are doing—without some fiery trials (I Peter 4:12).
Winston Churchill said, "Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm." So . . . march on, Mama!

Denise Mira, author of No Ordinary Child: Unlocking the Leader Within Your Child, has been married to Gregory for twenty-nine years. They are the parents of five sons. Denise has traveled extensively, both nationally and internationally, inspiring change as she shares the message God has given her for families. She would love to have you visit her blog at www.denisemira.com, and she can be reached at contact@denisemira.com.

Endnotes:
1. www.ed.gov/about/overview/fed/10facts/index.html, "Overview: 10 Facts About K-12 Education Funding." Total taxpayer investment in K-12 education in the United States for the 2004-05 school year is estimated to be $536 billion.
2. www.nheri.org/Research-Facts-on-Homeschooling.html, Brian D. Ray, Ph.D., "Research Facts on Homeschooling," September 18, 2008.
3. www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,426150,00.html, Monday, September 22, 2008.
4. www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=85408, January 5, 2009.
5. www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/03/30/cafferty.schools/index.html, March 30, 2009.
6. Webster's New World College Dictionary on Power CD, Zane Publishing, Inc., 1995.
Copyright 2009. Originally appeared in The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, Winter 2009/10.

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Words to live by....


A CATHOLIC RULE OF LIFE.

as recommended by a friend and found in THIS gem written in 1900.

A rule of life is of the greatest importance for every Catholic to
persevere and grow in virtue, and to obtain the perfection of his state
of life.

It consists principally of these points :

1. ON AWAKING in the morning bless yourself with the sign of the
cross, and offer up the coming day to God. Arise at once when it is
time to do so, and whilst dressing yourself modestly dwell in thought on
the presence of God.

Bless yourself with holy water and say your
MORNING PRAYERS devoutly. Never go to work without having first
said your prayers ; for everything depends on the blessing of God.
Renew your good intention and firm purpose of avoiding all sin,
especially your characteristic fault, and of doing and suffering every
thing for the love of God. Try to assist daily at holy Mass if it is
possible, and if you cannot do so, assist at least in spirit at all the holy
Masses which are being said during the day.

2. You can attain the perfection of your state of life and grow rich
in merit without performing great and extraordinary works, but never
without doing the duties of your state of life and calling according to
the will of God. Therefore go to your daily work after having said
your morning prayers, and do it for the honor of God, ever mindful of
the words of the Apostle, " whether you eat or drink, or whatsoever else
you do, do all to the glory of God " (1 Cor. 10 : 31).

If your work grows hard and irksome, RENEW YOUR GOOD INTENTION
every now and then by saying : u O my God, I offer up my work to Thee ! "
" My Jesus, I shall toil for love of Thee ; for Thou hast done much more for me."
Try to do your work well, and with as much care as you can ; for it is
GOD Whom you serve, and work is the lot of man since sin entered into
this world. "In the sweat of thy brow thou shalt eat bread." Shun
idleness, for it is the root of many sins.

3. Sanctify YOUR MEALS. Do not sit down to table without prayer to
Him from Whom all good things come. Be temperate and moderate at
your meals, and do not forget to give thanks to God, Who has again
given you a proof of His fatherly affection.

4. Take your necessary RELAXATION in order to gain new strength
for the service of God. Avoid untimely and prolonged recreation, and
shun especially everything that is dangerous, coarse, or immodest.
Never forget that God is near you and sees everything also during your
hours of relaxation.

5. Be friendly in your CONVERSATION : carefully avoid speaking ill of
others, never tell a lie, and shun every word that is against charity, or
faith, or chastity. Be very prudent in your choice of companions, and
keep away from all company and amusements that might endanger
your soul.

6. If AFFLICTION befalls you, remember that it is God Who sends or
permits it ; take it in the spirit of penance, and with resignation to the
will of God, say with Jesus : " The chalice which My Father hath given
Me, shall I not drink it?" (John 18 : 11) ; "Father, not My will, but
Thine be done " (Luke 22 : 42).

7. As you cannot enter heaven or ever gain the least merit for
heaven in the state of mortal sin, be most anxious to REMAIN IN THE
STATE OF GRACE. Frequent confession and communion is the best
means to preserve it. Therefore, make up your mind to go to the
sacraments REGULARLY and at STATED TIMES. Should you ever be so
unhappy as to fall into mortal sin, make at once an act of perfect con
trition and go to confession as soon as you can.

8. Make good use of the SUNDAYS AND HOLY DAYS OF OBLIGATION
for the service of God and for the welfare of your immortal soul.

9. Never retire at night without having said your EVENING PRAYERS.
In doing so give thanks to God for all the graces and blessings He has
bestowed upon you during the past day. Examine your conscience,
and make an act of contrition for the sins you may have committed.
Ask God to protect you during the night and, as you did in the morn
ing, invoke the intercession of the Blessed Virgin, of your guardian
angel, and of your patron saint. Be very modest whilst undressing,
bless yourself with the sign of the cross, and try to fall asleep with
pious thoughts in your mind.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

+JMJ+


The Holy Family Prayer

JESUS, Son of God and Son of Mary, bless our family. Graciously inspire in us the unity, peace and mutual love that you found in your own family in the little town of Nazareth.

MARY, Mother of Jesus and our Mother, nourish our family with your faith and your love. Keep us close to your Son, Jesus, in all our sorrows and joys.

JOSEPH, Foster-father to Jesus, guardian and spouse of Mary, keep our family safe from harm. Help us in all times of discouragement or anxiety.

HOLY FAMILY OF NAZARETH, make our family one with you. Help us to be instruments of peace. Grant that love, strengthened by grace, may prove mightier than all the weaknesses and trials through which our families sometimes pass. May we always have God at the center of our hearts and homes until we are all one family, happy and at peace in our true home with you. Amen.


Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Make Me An Angel that Flies from Montgomery

I am sure it's happened to you.

You're doing something and it connects to a song...then the song is in your head.

Flashcards.

Alabama.



O, I luv this girl...her raspy voice and slide quitar. The Blues.

Leads me to replay some soundtracks from my life... Linda Ronstadt, Jackson Browne, Little Feet up to Norah Jones. The music makes me smile and takes me to another place...

Monday, March 1, 2010

Mr. Spock WOULD make a great Catholic!

Mary, Exterminatrix of Heresies - She has an Immaculate Heart and a Club of Truth !



LUV this image from a blog Sarah-Kala directed me to today.

And I LUV the post from said blog as well. You will too, especially if you are a Star Trek fan. http://actsoftheapostasy.blogspot.com/2010/03/mr-spock-would-make-great-catholic.html